Good morning, all, Hi, Queendiva checking in. As a mother of an 8 year old, toddling doesn't seem so long ago. I would suggest that anyone who never had children and has those wonderful collectibles standing around either move them and put them away temporarily or be prepared for them to be broken. I only say this because time is tight and you don't know how the Mom is raising this child. The way I was raised and am raising my daughter is NO means NO--don't touch means don't touch. I have plenty of collectibles and nick-nacks, and dolls lying about and in cases that she knew as a toddler were off limits. My mother raised five children this way and she didn't move ANY of her stuff. We just didn't touch it.
As for being nervous, just be yourself...that's the only person you can be, and I' m sure she'll love you more than we do ha-ha. Seriously, who else can you be than yourself? Enjoy the visit because you don't know when you'll see them again, and most of all RELAX. Things have a way of working themselves out.
Enjoy and let us know how it went (even us lurkers come out when we're needed).
Hugs, CarolM/Queendiva/lpsnhps@cybernex.net -----Original Message----- From: candichat-owner@dolls.de [mailto:candichat-owner@dolls.de]On Behalf Of Alana Bennett Sent: Friday, August 09, 2002 9:49 AM To: Karla; candichat Subject: Re: Nervous in New Jersey - Help!-
Karla
Just be yourself  I am sure you will do great! Sorry this is late  why is some of the email over a day old!
Most 1 year old babies do not toddle too well and they really donÂt get into everything Âunless they are a BOY ÂLOL
Hugs
Alana
-----Original Message----- From: candichat-owner@dolls.de [mailto:candichat-owner@dolls.de]On Behalf Of Karla Sent: Tuesday, July 30, 2002 5:15 AM To: candichat Subject: Nervous in New Jersey - Help!-
Hi all,
I really am a Mother to my 7 year old toy poodle named Giorgio. However, I am a real Grandmother to my stepdaughter's little girl, Emily and I also have alot of nieces and a new nethew . I'm hope I am not going to bore you all to death but there is something I wanted to tell you and mabe get some suggestions.
My Stepdaughter Angie, her Husband Dan and Emily live in Utah and I live in New Jersey so it's so hard not to have Emily with my husband and I, especially st the Holidays. Angie is a great step-daughter and she is always sending updated pictures and we talk alot on the phone. But, here's the thing - She is coming to visit this Wednesday (oh My God, that's tomorrow) and we will be with them Tommorow evening and Thursday until about 4:00. I AM A NERVOUS WRECK!! I never had any children so I feel like a fish out of water. I did see her when she was first born at 5 weeks but now she's going to be toddline all over the place now. Tomorrow night we wil will be picking Angie and Emily up from the Airpopt in Philadelphia and going straight to my Sister-In-Laws house for a little familiy reunion which is great ( she is a great hostess and I am not!) and then when we see her on Thursday they will be coming to my house to open Birthday presents (Emily will be 1 on August 10th) and then we are going to brunch! I know I am going to have trouble with conversation, etc, with Angie let alone the Baby!! I really want to enjoy this trip because I cannot get on a plane so I don't know when the next visit will be. Also, my living room is filled with porcelain dolls - some as big as 3 feet tall. They are anchored to the wall but all the other ones - also large enough that I have to have them standing - are just by my window in the living room. Mt friends think I should put the dolls "away" because of the baby coming but once my dolls are situated I don't like to disrupt them - Barbies and Candies are downstairs in their own little world,
Any suggestions from you Moms out there on topics of conversation or just suggestions on being a Grandmother. I am concerned about the dolls all over and I don't want to sound like a mean Grandmother saying, no Emily, no if she wants to grab onto one them. My step-daughter is not a doll person at all. This is supposed to be a fun time and I am ruining it with worrying so much! Hope I haven't bored anyone but I would greatly appreciate any info. you can help me with.
Karla,
Nervous in New Jersey